RJN “My Journey Home”
Adina Jacobs
RJN “My Custody Loss”
Adina Jacobs
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“This is wonderful in every way imaginable Adina. I’d love the opportunity to proofread for you if you’re interested. The process we established for your other RJN was both easy and light for me.
I’d also wanted to recommend that this becomes Part 2 and might have a single page dividing it. I’m on my phone but added something to address this at the bottom of https://narrowroadpublishinghouse.com/wtt/ that I’ll come back later to work on.
Adina, if you move this chapter onto NRP Oh, also move this comment there as well since this isn’t really the place to discuss writing as an author, but just to get excited about what you wrote, and about this particular chapter. 🥳🥰”
https://loveatlast.org/my-custody-loss-update-and-new-chapter-%f0%9f%92%97/#comment-1468
Here is the document I created, He led me to just made a copy of my RJN and share it with same people so I believe you’ll have access 🤣
https://docs.google.com/document/d/1FTKhQSIK5OwDv1DGDA7AvXBH65ACNMcGvGE-8UlxhnU/edit?usp=sharing
I will only say that every day I can verify that what his word says is real, “His plans are for peace and good” when we are in the process, sometimes this is difficult for us to accept and believe, but if we leave everything in his hands the work, thanks for sharing Adina🤗
My children are older, and I did not have these problems… but I would like to soon be able to write about my restoration journey like you, hugs.
Solo diré que cada día puedo comprobar que lo que dice su palabra es real, “Sus planes son de paz y de bien” cuando estamos en el proceso a veces esto se nos hace difícil aceptarlo y creerlo, pero si lo dejamos todo en sus manos el obra, gracias por compartir Adina🤗
Mis hijos son mayores, y no tuve estos problemas.. pero sí me gustaría pronto poder escribir mi viaje de restauración como ustedes, abrazos.
Obrigada Nelly, sim, estar no meio da tempestade nunca é fácil. Quando tudo isso começou, quase me quebrou. Mas então Ele lentamente começou a me dar uma paz que excede todo entendimento.
Também estou ocupado com meu RJN “My Journey Home” que você pode ler aqui: https://narrowroadpublishinghouse.com/rjn-adina-jacobs/
Thank you Nelly, yes being in the middle of the storm is never easy. When this all started it almost broke me. But then He slowly began to give me peace that surpasses all understanding.
I am also busy with my RJN “My Journey Home” that you can read here: https://narrowroadpublishinghouse.com/rjn-adina-jacobs/
WOW Adina que Novela y Testimonio tan increíble, realmente mi corazón se estremeció tan solo de pensar estar en tú lugar, nuestros hijos son un punto de quiebre en nuestra vida y solo con la ayuda de Nuestro Esposo Celestial pudiste dejar ir y entregarlos en el altar como lo hizo Abraham, algo muy díficil, realmente difícil como madre lo sé, pero todo es para nuestro bien y para alimentar a mujeres que lo necesitan, y para Gloria de nuestro Esposo.
WOW Adina, what an incredible Novel and Testimony, my heart really shook just thinking about being in your place, our children are a breaking point in our life and only with the help of Our Heavenly Husband were you able to let go and hand them over to the altar like Abraham did, something very difficult, really difficult as a mother I know, but everything is for our good and to feed women who need it, and for the Glory of our Husband.
Thank you, my dear Esperanza. Although it was one of the most difficult things I went through, I had my Heavenly Husband was with me the whole time, assuring me that things will work out for good.
I guess it’s normal for a mother to worry about the damage that can be caused by something like this, but I know their healing is also in His hands, and He also have a plan for them because of what they went through.
My heart hurts for you as I read this. Thank you for sharing your testimony. I’m currently in a storm and my children are in the forefront. I love how you kept bringing everything to the Lord and then trusting and leaving it at that. Also how perfectly and light the move to the new townhouse and homeschooling went, whereas if you would have pushed it on your way it would have only caused division. Thank you again for writing and sharing. I have to remember that God is able to do more than I can imagine and not having my kids living with me won’t end in sure disaster like the enemy and my flesh tell me it will. he loves our children even more than we do and will use this for their good too.
Yes my dear Rasa, this lesson really helped me a lot: https://loveatlast.org/finding-the-abundant-life/chapter-12-your-best-protection/. Our Beloved Heavenly Husband loves our children more that we could ever do, therefore we can surrender them into their Heavenly Father’s hands.
Win without a word and gentle and quiet spirit became real to me during this trail, seeing the fruits of having these qualities. Having a HH does not mean we will not face trails but having Him causes us to go through our trails differently than the world, we can have peace and joy in the midst’s of our trails.
I’m so grateful that I read your testimony and I know when you say that you trust God with your children you mean it. he’s shown you time and time again he loves them. Praise God for the beautiful work He’s doing in your life and in your children 🖤🖤
Qué hacer cuando su esposo abusa de su hija, qué hacer en este caso?
What to do when your husband abuses your daughter, what to do in this case?
Dear Adina,
What a valuable testimony, my heart broke when i read the first chapter and as i read how sad you were because you had failed HIM when you totally lost it… what can i say? It was so unexpected, i totally understand that you lost it… even though we know its not the best we can do, but most important, He understands what you were going through and He was there for you.
It is so lovely to read how he picked you up and made such a gentle and quiet spirit out of you… i am so impressed by what you went through… and more impressed by the outcome! You are homeschooling your children and managed to bring peace to your relationship with your eh.
Reading the fact that you did not want to move back to that town because of the pain you went through before at that place, i am sure it is His plan that you go there for a very specific reason and that He is taking you to another level of healing that will result in something beautiful.
I dont know where you are at now, but i truly pray for you that He finishes what He started in your family.
Philippians 1:6 “being confident of this, that he who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus.”
Quiero saber si hay alguna forma de leer esto en español, si existe alguna publicación de este testimonio en español, que alguien me lo pueda compartir, Gracias de ante mano.
I want to know if there is any way to read this in Spanish, if there is any publication of this testimony in Spanish, that someone can share it with me. Thank you in advance.
Hi dear Gaby, we don’t have it in Spanish yet, but I will send this comment to our Spanish Ministry as well should the Lord lead them to translate.
Hola querida Gaby, aún no lo tenemos en español, pero también enviaré este comentario a nuestro Ministerio de español si el Señor los lleva a traducir.
Querida, ya nuestro equipo de traduccion ha tomado esta tarea, esperamos tenerlo listo en Español en dos semanas si Dios permite. 🙏🏻
Gracias Yvonne por compartirme este comentario 🙂
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Dear, our translation team has already taken on this task, we hope to have it ready in Spanish in two weeks, God willing. 🙏🏻
Thank you Yvonne for sharing this comment with me 🙂
Querida Gaby, ya tenemos los pirmeros 6 capitulos traducidos al español, puedes leerlos aqui: https://esperanzaalfin.com/rjn-adina/
Querida Gaby ya esta completa la traduccion al Español, espero que sea de bendición para ti. 💖
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Dear Gaby, the translation into Spanish is now complete. I hope it is a blessing to you. 💖
Adina, thank you for this testimony. The Lord gave you the strength to go through that journey and to let go of your children. Like Abraham, you gave them to the Lord and He gave you peace and wisdom to walk in His arms and accept His Will.
As you say in your novel, only Our Beloved knows our tears, and only by going to HIM do we find peace and strength because we could not do it alone.
He guides your steps, and everything you have gone through is to give glory to the Lord, because He has always been by your side, listening to you and taking care of your children as well. And I know how it hurts when our children are exposed, and I cried when I read your novel because it reminded me of times when my daughter, in particular, was with the Other person, and that hurts a lot, but Our Beloved is the protector of our children, and everything He does is within HIS plan. Thank you dear Adina and may the Lord continue to bless you.
Adina, may I ask something? When you said you “just told them that I made mistakes during our marriage. Until today I have never told them anything bad about their father or tried to ruin their relationship with him.” I agree it’s very wise because our children need to “honor their father and their mother so it will go well with them and they’ll live long on the earth.” But have you made sure they’re able to honor you, their mother, not just their father?
I believe this is where I made mistakes. I wanted so much to do the right thing that I believe the enemy schemed and pushed this too far.
At least I was wise enough to tell them I didn’t want to be divorced, so my children did not assume the divorce was mutual. Is there a balance or a way to stay in the center of the narrow road like Erin talks about?
After Kevin spoke to the children during the divorce, I told the children that divorce was not that I wanted. I also mentioned that I made some mistakes but that my heart’s desire was to fix what was broken, but I had to let go. At that stage, because I was still new on my journey, I thought I made a mistake telling them that, but now I realize it worked out for good because they know it was not mutual and being divorced and having them in stay in two homes with one blended family, was not what I wanted for them.
What you said encouraged me a lot. May I suggest you weave that into the chapter I was reading when it made me doubt? I think it’s really important for mom’s with custody issues to know.
Thank you so much. He led me to make small changes to this paragraph:
“During this time, the children asked me some questions regarding the divorce. Kevin talked to them when he filed for the divorce, so I don’t really know what he told them, I never asked. I did not say anything bad about Kevin or Celia and just told them that I made mistakes during our marriage. Until today I have never told them anything bad about their father or tried to ruin their relationship with him.”
Changed it to:
“During this time, the children asked me some questions regarding the divorce. Kevin talked to them when he filed for the divorce, so I don’t really know what he told them, I never asked. I answered their questions briefly without detail or saying anything bad about Kevin or Celia and reiterating what I told them during the divorce process. Until today I have never told them anything bad about their father or tried to ruin their relationship with him.”
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Adina, this can be deleted, I think. Ask Him because I believe it’s on the page